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SLAMET PRAYITNO

“Pak Slamet”

2 March 1948 – 2 November 2021

Magelang

Former Buddhist monk turned geography teacher and guide to Borobudur's quietest corners

Pak Slamet spent eleven years in saffron robes and the rest of his life explaining, with great patience, that he had not been a better person then, only a quieter one. Born in Muntilan in 1948, he grew up in a rice-farming family a few kilometres from the great stupa of Borobudur, which he first climbed barefoot at the age of six, delighted to find that the carved stone faces seemed to be smiling at him.

At twenty he entered Mendut Monastery as a novice and later took full ordination, spending years in meditation, in study of the sutras and in the early-morning chanting that still drifts across the Progo valley. In 1979 he left the robes, not out of doubt but out of a feeling that he could serve better in a classroom than a cloister, and he married Sri Wahyuni, a seamstress from Mungkid. He became a geography and civics teacher at SMA Negeri 1 Magelang, where for twenty-eight years he taught the rivers of Java and the discipline of paying attention. Students remembered his habit of beginning each term by asking the class to sit in silence for one minute and then asking what they had heard. At Vesak he guided pilgrims at Borobudur, always at dawn, always to the quietest corner of the upper terrace, away from the cameras.

He kept orchids and a dented bicycle, grew chilli in old paint tins, made a wonderful tempe bacem and lent money without keeping a record. He died peacefully at home in Magelang on 2 November 2021, aged seventy-three, after a long illness, with a candle burning and a sutra being chanted nearby. He leaves his wife Sri, his daughters Wahyu and Dewi, his son Bagus and four grandchildren.

“Sit for one minute. Then tell me what you heard.”

Funeral arrangements

Service
Buddhist Funeral Service & Burial
Date & time
East Africa Time (Nairobi)
Venue
Mendut Monastery
Address
Mendut, Mungkid, Magelang, Central Java
Resting place
Family cemetery, Magelang

Funeral committees

Family committee

Coordinating the arrangements and supporting Slamet's family.

  • chair: Bagus Prayitno
  • secretary: Rini Kusuma
  • treasurer: Bhante Sujiwo

Contact: Bagus Prayitno

Meetings: Daily at the family home, Magelang, 5pm

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Survived by

  • Spouse: Sri Wahyuni
  • Daughter: Wahyu Lestari
  • Son: Bagus Prayitno
  • Daughter: Dewi Prayitno
  • Grandchildren: 4 grandchildren

Life journey

  1. 1968–1979Ordained as novice, then monk · Mendut Monastery · Mendut, Central Java

    Eleven years of meditation, sutra study and dawn chanting.

  2. 1979Left the robes and married Sri Wahyuni · Mungkid, Magelang

    Chose the classroom over the cloister; married a seamstress from Mungkid.

  3. 1980–1983Bachelor of Education (Geography) · IKIP Yogyakarta (now Yogyakarta State University) · Yogyakarta

    Studied by day and taught Sunday school by night.

  4. 1984–2012Geography & Civics Teacher · SMA Negeri 1 Magelang · Magelang

    Twenty-eight years of teaching the rivers of Java and the discipline of attention.

  5. 1985–2019Pilgrim guide at Vesak · Borobudur Temple Compounds · Magelang

    Led dawn walks to the quietest corners of the upper terrace.

  6. 2005Dedicated Teacher Award · Magelang Education Office · Magelang

    For decades of devoted classroom service.

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Hendrik Jansen

Dutch backpacker he guided in 1996

I was nineteen, lost and hungover on the Borobudur terrace. A man in a plain shirt sat me down and told me to listen to the wind for one minute. I came back four times in my life. The last time I brought my daughter, and he remembered my name.

Rini Kusuma

Pilgrim he guided at Vesak 2012

At dawn on Vesak he led us to a corner of the upper terrace I had missed in ten visits. He pointed at the sunrise behind Merapi and said nothing for ten minutes. It was the most eloquent guide I have ever had.

Ibu Tini

Neighbour in Magelang

Every Friday he left a bundle of chilli seedlings at my gate with a note: 'Plant patience.' My yard is full of chilli now, and so is my heart. He lent money and forgot. I will not forget.

Haryanto

Colleague at SMA Negeri 1 Magelang, 1984–1995

We shared a staff room and a thermos of tea for eleven years. He never complained about the leaking roof, only about the lack of silence. When the monsoon drummed on the tin he would smile and say, 'Listen.' I became a better teacher by listening.

Ratna Sari

Former student, SMA Negeri 1 Magelang, class of 1990

Pak Slamet's one minute of silence changed me. I heard a rooster, a bicycle bell and my own heart. I carried that minute to Universitas Indonesia, to Jakarta, to every exam. I give one minute to my own daughter every morning. It is the best lesson I ever received.

Bhante Sujiwo

Resident monk, Mendut Monastery

He left the robes but never left the monastery. Every full moon he came back to sit in the hall, always in the last row, always the first to sweep the leaves. When I asked why, he said, 'Practice has no uniform.'