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DEATH ANNOUNCEMENT

RUBÉN ALFONSO CRUZ PRIEGO

“Don Rubén”

21 February 1947 – 26 December 2019

Ciudad del Carmen

Pemex platform foreman in the Campeche Sound and the man who led the blessing of the fleet

Don Rubén's work boots stayed by the front door of the house in Ciudad del Carmen for forty years, still smelling of diesel and salt, because he said a man who forgets where his work comes from forgets where his bread comes from.

Born in Frontera, Tabasco, in 1947, the son of a fisherman and a cacao-farm cook, Rubén studied petroleum technology at the Instituto Tecnológico de Ciudad Madero and in 1970 signed on with Pemex. He spent thirty-five years working the offshore platforms of the Campeche Sound, rising to platform foreman in the Cantarell complex, where he taught three generations of young roughnecks to respect the gas, the weather and the safety manual, in that order.

Rubén worked fourteen days on and fourteen off, and the stories from his shifts became family legend: the winter norte storm in 1982, when he kept thirty men calm for two nights by organizing a dominoes tournament; the helicopter that landed on the wrong platform; the cook who mistook his hard hat for a pot lid. He never raised his voice, never cut a corner and never, his sons insist, lost a single game of dominoes.

At home he was a different man: a soft-spoken fisherman, a singer of boleros on the porch and a devotee of the Virgen del Carmen, patroness of the city and of all who work the sea. For twenty-two years he led the blessing of the fleet on her feast day in July, steering the first boat out into the Laguna de Términos with the statue lashed to the bow. He cooked pejelagarto better than anyone in Tabasco and fed whoever came to the door, including, once, a stray pelican.

Rubén died on 26 December 2019, aged seventy-two, at home in Ciudad del Carmen after a short illness, with his wife Elvia beside him and the sound of the sea through the window. He is survived by Elvia, his wife of forty-nine years; his children Rubén Jr., Carlos and Dalia; seven grandchildren; and a harbor of boats that flew their flags at half-mast the day he was buried.

“A man who forgets where his work comes from forgets where his bread comes from.”

Funeral arrangements

Service
Requiem Mass
Date & time
East Africa Time (Nairobi)
Venue
Catedral de Nuestra Señora del Carmen
Address
Calle 24, Centro, Ciudad del Carmen, Campeche
Resting place
Panteón Municipal, Ciudad del Carmen, Campeche

Funeral committees

Family committee

Coordinating the arrangements and supporting Rubén's family.

  • chair: Dalia Cruz Pérez
  • secretary: Tomás Priego
  • treasurer: Mariana Velázquez

Contact: Dalia Cruz Pérez

Meetings: Daily at the family home, Ciudad del Carmen, 5pm

≈ KES 58,211 raised of ≈ KES 103,200

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Contributions · Family support & maritime scholarship fund

≈ KES 386,033 raised of ≈ KES 516,000

Help the Cruz family with final expenses and fund a scholarship for children of offshore workers in Ciudad del Carmen.

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Survived by

  • Spouse: Elvia Pérez de Cruz
  • Son: Rubén Cruz Pérez
  • Son: Carlos Cruz Pérez
  • Daughter: Dalia Cruz Pérez
  • Grandchildren: 7 grandchildren

Life journey

  1. 1965–1969Petroleum Technician Diploma · Instituto Tecnológico de Ciudad Madero · Ciudad Madero, Tamaulipas

    Studied drilling and production and learned to read a barometer like a newspaper.

  2. 1970–1988Roustabout and Platform Hand · Pemex · Campeche Sound

    Eighteen years on the first platforms of the Campeche Sound.

  3. 1970Married Elvia Pérez · Ciudad del Carmen

    Forty-nine years, three children, one very loud rooster.

  4. 1988–2005Platform Foreman, Cantarell Complex · Pemex · Campeche Sound

    Led platform crews and trained a generation of young workers.

  5. 1983–2005Leader of the Blessing of the Fleet · Parroquia de la Virgen del Carmen · Ciudad del Carmen

    Steered the first boat of the July procession for twenty-two years.

  6. 2005Recognition for Thirty-Five Years of Service · Pemex · Ciudad del Carmen

    Presented by colleagues with a plaque and a pot of pejelagarto.

Condolence messages (6)

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Tomás Priego

Cousin, Houston, Texas

I left Tabasco at nineteen to work the Gulf from the American side. Rubén visited once and refused to believe Houston had a harbor. “Where is the sea?” he asked. I took him to Galveston. He stood in the water, said it was the wrong color, and ate three kilos of shrimp.

Padre Ignacio Cámara

Parish priest

Rubén carried the Virgen del Carmen on his shoulders every July and apologized to her for the weight. I told him she was lighter than a lifetime of prayer. He laughed for a week. Ciudad del Carmen will not hold a fiesta the same way without him.

Carlos Cruz Pérez

Son

Papá never told us he loved us in words. He told us in diesel, salt and a hand on the back of the neck when we left for school. The day of the funeral every boat in the harbor flew its flag at half-mast. That is how I know he said it to everyone.

Elías Moreno Díaz

Platform colleague, Cantarell

Fourteen days on, fourteen off, and Rubén cooked for the whole platform on the last night of every rotation. Pejelagarto, rice, plantain. The kitchen smelled like Tabasco even in the middle of the Gulf. He made two hundred of us feel like family. I will never forget it.

Mariana Velázquez

Neighbor

He fed the stray cats, the stray dogs and, once, a stray pelican. Every Christmas he left a pot of pozole at our door and pretended it was from the Virgin. We knew. We loved him for the pretense.

Capitán Joaquín Zapata

Boat captain, Laguna de Términos

Don Rubén led the blessing of the fleet for twenty-two years and never once let the Virgin get wet. On the water he spoke softly and every boat in the lagoon fell quiet to listen. He could read a storm from the color of the sunset. We lost our best weatherman.