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RAFIATU ADUNNI OYELADE

“Iya Alata”

2 June 1948 – 9 January 2022

Lagos

Iyaloja of Mushin's pepper sellers who fed a neighbourhood and schooled sixty girls

Before the first call to prayer, the lamp at stall 14 in Mushin Market was already lit, and Alhaja Rafiatu Oyelade was already arguing happily with a lorry driver about the price of tatashe. For more than fifty years that was the rhythm of her life, and half of Lagos learned to season its stew by her measure.

Born in Abeokuta in 1948, Rafiatu was the fourth of nine children of a cloth dyer and his wife. She left school after primary six at Ansar-Ud-Deen so that her younger brothers could stay in class, and at nineteen she travelled to Lagos with one basket of dried pepper and an address written on a torn piece of paper. By 1970 she had her own stall, a husband in Alhaji Lateef Oyelade, and a reputation: she never cheated a scale and never turned a hungry child away.

Her fellow traders made her Iyaloja of the Mushin pepper sellers in 1992, and she held the title for twenty-seven years. She settled quarrels over stall boundaries, negotiated with the local government when levies rose, and quietly paid the school fees of more than sixty apprentice girls, each of whom was expected to learn to read, to count and to speak up for herself. 'A woman who can count,' she liked to say, 'is never cheated twice.'

She performed Hajj in 2004, and the photograph from Arafat stood on every shelf in her home. She loved ofada rice, old Fuji records, and the Friday evening hour when her grandchildren crowded onto her bed to hear the same three stories again. She died peacefully at home in January 2022, surrounded by her children, having spent her last week on the telephone reconciling two feuding traders.

She is survived by her sons and daughter, nineteen grandchildren, and a market that still keeps a lamp lit at stall 14.

“A woman who can count is never cheated twice.”

Funeral arrangements

Service
Janazah Prayer
Date & time
East Africa Time (Nairobi)
Venue
Mushin Central Mosque
Address
Agege Motor Road, Mushin, Lagos
Resting place
Family burial ground, Abeokuta

Funeral committees

Family committee

Coordinating the arrangements and supporting Rafiatu's family.

  • chair: Kafayat Oyelade-Bello
  • secretary: Funmilayo Adebayo
  • treasurer: Chinedu Okafor

Contact: Kafayat Oyelade-Bello

Meetings: Daily at the family home, Lagos, 5pm

≈ KES 45,344 raised of ≈ KES 58,050

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Contributions · Funeral & apprentice scholarship fund

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Survived by

  • Daughter: Kafayat Oyelade-Bello
  • Son: Dr. Wasiu Oyelade
  • Son: Hassan Oyelade
  • Grandchildren: 19 grandchildren

Life journey

  1. 1954–1960Primary education · Ansar-Ud-Deen Primary School · Abeokuta

    Left after primary six so her younger brothers could stay in school.

  2. 1967Moved to Lagos · Lagos

    Arrived with one basket of dried pepper and a scrap of paper with an address.

  3. 1968–2020Pepper and condiment trader · Mushin Market · Lagos

    Stall 14, open before dawn for fifty-two years.

  4. 1970–2011Married Alhaji Lateef Oyelade · Lagos

    A marriage of forty-one years.

  5. 1992–2019Iyaloja of the Pepper Sellers · Mushin Market Traders' Association · Lagos

    Settled disputes, negotiated levies and sponsored apprentice girls.

  6. 2004Performed Hajj · Makkah

    Travelled with her sister and two of her daughters.

  7. 2011Community Service Award · Mushin Local Government · Lagos

    For decades of support to young women in trade.

Condolence messages (6)

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Hassan Oyelade-Bello

Grandson, Houston

Grandma told me when I left for Texas that a stall is just a table until you give it your name. I run a small logistics firm now and I still hear her voice every time I sign an invoice. Rest well, Iya Alata.

Chinedu Okafor

Tomato supplier from Nnewi, customer of thirty years

A Yoruba Muslim woman and an Igbo Catholic man, and we never once disagreed on the price of a basket, because she always told me the fair one before I could name it. Nobody in the market was ever more honest, or more loved.

Rukayat Ogunbiyi

Cousin, London

Every Eid she would send a parcel to London with ata rodo packed so tightly in newspaper that the whole flat smelled of Mushin for a week. My children grew up on her pepper. We could not make the flight in time, but we prayed with the family on the live call.

Adeola Bello

Former apprentice, now owns a shop in Ikeja

She paid my fees at secondary school and then told me to open my own stall instead of working for anybody. 'Be your own Iyaloja,' she said. I now employ four girls, and I tell each of them the same thing.

Alhaji Kabiru Lawal

Chairman, Mushin traders' union

In thirty years I never saw her lose an argument, and I never saw her hold a grudge afterwards. When levies doubled in 2009 it was Iya Alata who walked into the council office with a calculator and a flask of zobo. We went home with the old rates.

Funmilayo Adebayo

Fellow trader at Mushin Market

Iya Alata gave me my first ten kilos of pepper on credit in 1998 when all I had was a sick husband and a loud voice. She told me to pay when I could. I paid in two years and she hugged me like I had won a prize. She never mentioned it again.