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MERLE PEARLINE GRANT

“Sister Grant”

18 June 1934 – 23 November 2019

London

Windrush-generation nurse, ward sister and alto in the front row of Brixton Hill Methodist

Merle Grant kept her landing papers in a Huntley & Palmers biscuit tin on top of the wardrobe for sixty-three years, and she never once had to open it for anyone who doubted she belonged. She knew how lucky that made her, and she spent a good part of her later life making sure others were not left to prove it alone.

Born in Mandeville, Jamaica, the third of seven children of a schoolmaster and a seamstress, Merle sailed to Southampton in 1956 at the age of twenty-two with a letter offering her a place as a student nurse. She trained at St Thomas' Hospital, across the river from Parliament, and in 1964 became a ward sister at Lewisham Hospital, where she stayed until she retired in 1996. Colleagues remember a woman who could silence a busy ward with one raised eyebrow, then sit for an hour with a frightened patient at three in the morning. She trained generations of junior nurses, many of them as newly arrived and homesick as she had once been, and kept a flask of ginger tea in the sluice room for anyone who needed it.

She married Cecil Grant, a London Transport fitter, at Brixton Hill Methodist Church in 1960, and they raised three children in a terraced house off Acre Lane, where Sunday meant church, rice and peas, and a front room full of neighbours. Merle sang alto in the choir for fifty-seven years and was never, her family insists, quite on the note, only quite magnificent. She loved Test match cricket on the radio, Sam Cooke on the record player, and arguing happily with her grandchildren about whose patois was the more authentic.

When the Windrush scandal broke in 2018, she wrote letters, accompanied two neighbours to their appointments and refused to call it politics. 'It's people,' she said. 'It's only ever people.'

Merle died peacefully at home in Brixton on 23 November 2019, her children beside her and the cricket highlights murmuring on the radio. She leaves her son Delroy, her daughters Pauline and Claudette, six grandchildren, and a Nine Night that one neighbour predicted 'the whole road will talk about for years'.

“Wash your face. Tomorrow you start being good at this.”

Funeral arrangements

Service
Thanksgiving Service
Date & time
East Africa Time (Nairobi)
Venue
Brixton Hill Methodist Church
Address
Brixton Hill, London SW2
Resting place
Lambeth Cemetery, Tooting, London

Funeral committees

Family committee

Coordinating the arrangements and supporting Merle's family.

  • chair: Pauline Grant-Reid
  • secretary: Cynthia Walker
  • treasurer: Reverend Samuel Ofori

Contact: Pauline Grant-Reid

Meetings: Daily at the family home, London, 5pm

≈ KES 2,451 raised of ≈ KES 6,450

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Contributions · Merle Grant Nursing Bursary

≈ KES 271,448 raised of ≈ KES 580,500

Help the family with funeral and Nine Night costs, with any surplus given to a bursary for Caribbean-heritage student nurses at Lewisham.

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Survived by

  • Son: Delroy Grant
  • Daughter: Pauline Grant-Reid
  • Daughter: Claudette Grant
  • Grandchildren: 6 grandchildren
  • Sister: Icilda Brown

Life journey

  1. 1956Sailed from Jamaica to Southampton · Southampton

    Arrived on a cold September morning with one suitcase and a nursing place waiting.

  2. 1956–1959State Registered Nurse training · St Thomas' Hospital · London

    Trained on the wards opposite the Houses of Parliament.

  3. 1959–1964Staff Nurse · St Thomas' Hospital · London

    Night shifts, borrowed gloves and her first lifelong friendships.

  4. 1960Married Cecil Grant · Brixton Hill Methodist Church · London

    A marriage of forty-four years until Cecil's death in 2004.

  5. 1964–1996Ward Sister · Lewisham Hospital · London

    Thirty-two years leading the same ward and training its nurses.

  6. 1962–2019Alto in the church choir · Brixton Hill Methodist Church · London

    Fifty-seven years, never missed a Sunday she could walk to.

  7. 1996NHS Long Service Award · NHS Lewisham · London

    Presented on her retirement after forty years in nursing.

Condolence messages (6)

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Aisha Rahman

Former student nurse, Lewisham Hospital

I was nineteen and had cried in the sluice room during my first week. Sister Grant handed me a mug of ginger tea and said, 'Now wash your face. Tomorrow you start being good at this.' I nursed for thirty years. I still don't know how she knew.

Cynthia Walker

Cousin in Toronto

Every Christmas a barrel arrived in Scarborough packed with Marmite, tea and knitted hats she was certain we needed for the Canadian winter. She was right. I wore the last one to the airport on my way to her funeral. It still smells of her house.

Donovan Campbell

Neighbour on Acre Lane for forty years

She fed half this street and never mentioned it. When my wife was ill, a covered plate appeared on our step every day for three weeks, and Merle would only say it had been 'just lying around'. Nothing in her kitchen was ever just lying around.

Reverend Samuel Ofori

Minister, Brixton Hill Methodist Church

For fifty-seven years she stood third from the left in the alto row and set the pitch for the whole church, whether the organ agreed or not. On the Sunday after she died the altos left her place empty and sang 'Blessed Assurance' around it. The sound was enormous.

Dr Olufemi Adeyemi

Consultant at Lewisham Hospital

Sister Grant taught me to take a pulse properly on my second night as a house officer, then watched me do it six more times until she was satisfied. 'Doctor,' she said, 'the patient has a face.' I have repeated that sentence to every trainee since. She never knew how far it travelled.

Beverley Thompson

Nursing friend since the voyage to Southampton, 1956

We shared a cabin and one good coat. Merle gave the coat to a girl who was crying on the dock and told me it was only fair because we had each other. Sixty-three years later I am the one still here without her. Lord, I will miss that laugh.